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“Growing up with Alex's brother Dan Grassel, I got to meet him over the years along with the rest of my family. Alex truly touched everyone's heart...Read More »
1 of 26 | Posted by: Nicholas Barnes - Leander, TX

“We were sad when we learned of Alex's passing. May all who loved and miss him find peace during this time. Thank you for your service, Alex. Bill &...Read More »
2 of 26 | Posted by: Bill Grassel - Delmont, PA

“Jay was a wonderful man who helped so many and impacted us in such a positive way. There will be an emptiness that cannot be filled and will not be...Read More »
3 of 26 | Posted by: Colleen Cooke - Pittsburgh, PA

“Jay and family,We are thinking and praying for you in this very difficult time. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.LoveDoug and Jill Gudenburr and...Read More »
4 of 26 | Posted by: Doug and Jill Gudenburr - PA

“Jay and family - Sending prayers in this difficult time. I am very sorry for your loss. Cindy (Grassel) Liberi ”
5 of 26 | Posted by: Cindy Liberi - Pittsburgh, PA

“Jay and FamilyOur hearts go out to you and your family. We were very sad to hear about Jay. May your memories of him find you comfort. Sending our...Read More »
6 of 26 | Posted by: Ed and Pearl Grassel - Pittsburgh, PA

“We were so very saddened and shocked to see Alex's obit in the paper. We immediately texted Ryan, and the group of friends from North Allegheny had...Read More »
7 of 26 | Posted by: Elaine Ek - Bradford Woods, PA

“I only knew Jay a short time but he was such a Light! So friendly and accepting. He was a genuinely good guy. I am so sorry for your loss. Ann O ”
8 of 26 | Posted by: Ann Oehling - Pittsburgh, PA

“Dear Jay, Family, Vets and loved ones,May God Bless you and all of us in this time of sorrow and mourning. I considered you my friend, colleague and...Read More »
9 of 26 | Posted by: Wayne Hoover - Pittsburgh, PA

“I am very sorry to hear of Alex's passing. My friendship with Alex was one of the defining friendships of my childhood. Visits to the house on...Read More »
10 of 26 | Posted by: Ryan Dax - Pittsburgh, PA

“Jay and Family,In Alex's loss there comes a time to grow closer to each other. Hold on to each other and to what is important. Be open to feeling...Read More »
11 of 26 | Posted by: Karl Kavalkovich - WALLINGFORD, PA

“I really looked up to and admired Alex, he had a heart of gold and was truly a joy to be around, my thoughts and prayers are with his family and...Read More »
12 of 26 | Posted by: Jon tillotson - Friend

“Wishing you peace and strength in this time of loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
13 of 26 | Posted by: David & Arlene Freeman - Austin, TX

“From the time when we were part of "2 1/2 men" (long before the show existed), to when he visited for a week to start his landscaping side job, Alex...Read More »
14 of 26 | Posted by: Ron Grassel - Woodstock, MD

“From an acquaintance and previous work colleague of Ron and Jay, I'm deeply saddened to learn of your loss. On behalf of my family and NI, I send my...Read More »
15 of 26 | Posted by: Scott Rogers - Rochester, NY

“Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May good memories provide comfort and peace. With deepest sympathies,The Wagner Family. ”
16 of 26 | Posted by: Jim Wagner - Finleyville, PA

“We are beyond saddened to hear this sad news. We have fond memories of Alex living next door to us, & what a great friend he was to our boys back...Read More »
17 of 26 | Posted by: The Jula Family Mark, Sue & Chris - PA

“I have known Jay for a very short time two of us were at veterans place together. He was in the process of helping me move to my new house. So we did...Read More »
18 of 26 | Posted by: Stanley Dobrowolski - Pittsburgh, PA

“Mountains of peace, Jay. I will miss your dry wit and your smile and your matter of fact perspective. ”
19 of 26 | Posted by: Robert Snyder - Pittsburgh, PA

“I thank God and Jay for Jay's service during Operation Enduring Freedom. How many times do we forgive ourselves, friends, family and even our...Read More »
20 of 26 | Posted by: Janet Pinedo - Odenton, MD

“RIP my friend. Jay was a great person. My condolences to family and friends. ”
21 of 26 | Posted by: Jillian Muir - Pittsburgh, PA

“Deepest sympathies. ”
22 of 26 | Posted by: Joe Yasko - Greenville, SC

“Very Very Saddening!! One of the Best People that I knew. ”
23 of 26 | Posted by: Brian Marsico - Pittsburgh, PA

“So sorry for your loss my heartfelt condolences and prayers for Alex and his family ”
24 of 26 | Posted by: James Hill - Pittsburgh, PA

“I'm beyond any words. I have only know him for a over a year. Him and I have become very good friends. He helped me become the sober person I am...Read More »
25 of 26 | Posted by: Chris Brugger - Port Matilda, PA

“I'm glad I got to meet Jay and become friends with him . Jay was very talented in art and was a true hero in the military. Im sorry you went to young...Read More »
26 of 26 | Posted by: Greg Edixon - Friend

Age 33, of Pittsburgh, passed away on Tuesday, August 25, 2020. Beloved son of Robin (Jeremy) Musher; and step-brother of Sam and Ben Musher. Beloved son of Jay (Debbie) Grassel and half-brother of Daniel and Olivia Grassel. Loving grandson of Nancy and Joe Raposky, Ronald and the late Evelyn Grassel. Also survived by many loving family members. Jay served in the U.S. Army in Afghanistan during Operation Enduring Freedom. Family and friends welcome Monday, 10 am - 1 pm at WILLIAM SLATER II FUNERAL SERVICE (412-563-2800), 1650 Greentree Road, Scott Twp. Private Burial in the National Cemetery of the Alleghenies. In lieu of flowers, please donate to

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